Bên cạnh Hướng dẫn đề thi IELTS 21/11/2020 bài WRITING TASK 1 (map) về school library (kèm bài sửa cho HS đi thi), IELTS TUTOR Phân tích đề "Describe a time when someone apologised to you" IELTS SPEAKING
I. Đề bài
Describe a time when someone apologised to you
You should say:
- Who apologised you and When
- Why they apologised
- And explain how did you felt after they apologised
II. Kiến thức liên quan
IELTS TUTOR hướng dẫn
III. Phân tích
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- Who apologised you and When
- Recently, just a few weeks ago, my husband apologized to me after an incident where he yelled at me.
- Why they apologised
- On a regular evening at home, amidst the usual routine, a minor disagreement unexpectedly escalated, leading to my husband losing his temper and uttering hurtful and unwarranted words.
- He raised his voice and said things that were hurtful and unnecessary. In that moment, I felt shocked and deeply hurt by his words and tone.
- However, shortly after the incident, my husband realized his mistake and came to me to apologize. He acknowledged that his behavior was unacceptable and expressed genuine remorse for his actions. He explained that he was under a lot of stress from work and personal matters, but he understood that it was not an excuse for taking it out on me.>> IELTS TUTOR hướng dẫn PHÂN TÍCH ĐỀ THI 30/5/2020 IELTS WRITING TASK 2 (kèm bài sửa HS đạt 6.5)
- And explain how did you felt after they apologised
- After he apologized, I felt a mixture of emotions.
- Main idea 1: On one hand, I appreciated his sincerity and felt relieved that he recognized his mistake.
- Supporting idea:
- It showed that he valued our relationship and was willing to take responsibility for his actions.
- It also demonstrated his commitment to treating me with respect and kindness, even in moments of frustration.
- Supporting idea:
- Main idea 2: On the other hand, I still felt hurt by his words and needed some time to process everything.
- Supporting idea:
- However, his apology opened the door for us to have an honest conversation about our feelings and how we can better communicate with each other in the future.
- Supporting idea:
- Main idea 1: On one hand, I appreciated his sincerity and felt relieved that he recognized his mistake.
- After he apologized, I felt a mixture of emotions.
IELTS TUTOR gợi ý bài tham khảo:
Recently, just a few weeks ago, my husband apologized to me after an incident where he yelled at me.
It was a typical evening at home, amidst the usual routine, when a minor disagreement unexpectedly escalated, leading to my husband losing his temper and uttering hurtful and unwarranted words. He raised his voice and said things that were hurtful and unnecessary. In that moment, I felt shocked and deeply hurt by his words and tone.
However, shortly after the incident, my husband realized his mistake and came to me to apologize. He acknowledged that his behavior was unacceptable and expressed genuine remorse for his actions. He explained that he was under a lot of stress from work and personal matters, but he understood that it was not an excuse for taking it out on me.>> IELTS TUTOR có hướng dẫn kĩ SỬA BÀI IELTS WRITING TASK 2 ĐỀ THI THẬT NGÀY 22/8/2020 của HS IELTS TUTOR đạt 6.5 Writing
After he apologized, I felt a mixture of emotions. On one hand, I appreciated his sincerity and felt relieved that he recognized his mistake. It showed that he valued our relationship and was willing to take responsibility for his actions. It also demonstrated his commitment to treating me with respect and kindness, even in moments of frustration. On the other hand, I still felt hurt by his words and needed some time to process everything. However, his apology opened the door for us to have an honest conversation about our feelings and how we can better communicate with each other in the future.
IV. Part 3.
1. On what occasion do people usually apologize to others?
People usually apologize when they make a minor transgression (vi phạm nhỏ – a small wrongdoing or mistake) in daily life. This could be bumping into someone on a crowded bus, where a quick apology helps maintain social harmony (sự hài hòa xã hội – the peaceful balance in community relations). For example, if you step on someone’s foot accidentally, a sincere “sorry” avoids unnecessary conflict. Without such gestures, even trivial situations might escalate into arguments.
Another common scenario is when they cause emotional distress (sự đau khổ về cảm xúc – strong negative feelings like sadness or anger). Saying sorry can repair strained relationships (mối quan hệ căng thẳng – relationships under tension or pressure) and demonstrate emotional intelligence. For instance, if you unintentionally hurt a friend’s feelings by a harsh remark, apologizing immediately softens the blow. In this way, an apology becomes not only polite but also therapeutic in restoring mutual trust.
2. Do people in your country like to say "sorry"?
In Vietnam, people are somewhat reluctant (miễn cưỡng – not willing or enthusiastic) to say sorry in everyday interactions. Children are often taught manners in school, but many abandon this habit when they grow older due to ingrained habits (thói quen ăn sâu – behaviors fixed deeply over time). For instance, you rarely see adults apologize when they cut in line at a supermarket, even though it’s clearly inappropriate. This reluctance can create frustration in public spaces.
However, in more formal settings (bối cảnh trang trọng – official or professional environments), people are more willing to apologize. Professionals, for example, often make apologies in workplaces to maintain professional credibility (sự tín nhiệm nghề nghiệp – being trusted or respected in a job). For example, when a manager misses a meeting, they usually apologize to their colleagues to save face. Overall, the culture of apology exists but is not consistently practiced.
3. Do you think people should apologize for anything wrong they do?
I strongly believe they should, because apologizing reflects a sense of moral obligation (nghĩa vụ đạo đức – a responsibility based on ethics or morality). Pretending that nothing happened after a mistake is unfair and unreasonable (bất hợp lý – not acceptable or logical). For instance, if someone spreads false rumors, failing to apologize leaves the victim deeply hurt and disrespected. An apology, therefore, is the first step to correcting such harm.
Furthermore, apologizing shows genuine remorse (sự ăn năn – deep regret for a wrong committed). Expressing regret signals that the action was unintentional or will not be repeated, which fosters mutual respect (sự tôn trọng lẫn nhau – reciprocal appreciation between people). For example, if a student forgets to submit homework, admitting their fault to the teacher indicates accountability. In this sense, apologies are less about formality and more about maintaining healthy human connections.
4. Why do some people refuse to say "sorry" to others?
One reason is that they want to maintain their personal image (giữ hình ảnh cá nhân – protect how they are viewed by others). Admitting fault may make them feel weak or cause them to lose face (mất mặt – suffer embarrassment or damage to reputation). For example, some managers avoid apologizing to subordinates because they fear it might reduce their authority. This mindset, however, often backfires by lowering respect from others.
Another explanation is that apologies can trigger feelings of guilt (cảm giác tội lỗi – the emotion of responsibility for a wrong). Instead of facing their actions, people sometimes choose denial as a defense mechanism (cơ chế phòng vệ – psychological strategy to avoid painful emotions). For instance, if a friend betrays trust, apologizing might make them feel even worse about themselves, so they avoid it entirely. Unfortunately, this avoidance only prolongs conflict rather than resolving it.>> tham khảo CẦN VIẾT & THU ÂM BAO NHIÊU BÀI ĐỂ ĐẠT 8.0 SPEAKING & 7.0 WRITING?
🔑 New Vocabulary with Synonyms/Antonyms
minor transgression (vi phạm nhỏ)
Synonyms: slight offense, petty mistake, trivial wrongdoing
Antonyms: serious crime, major violation, grave sin
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: “People usually apologize when they make a minor transgression in daily life.”
social harmony (sự hài hòa xã hội)
Synonyms: social cohesion, peaceful coexistence, community balance
Antonyms: social conflict, division, discord
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: “A quick apology helps maintain social harmony.”
emotional distress (sự đau khổ về cảm xúc)
Synonyms: emotional pain, mental suffering, psychological strain
Antonyms: emotional stability, comfort, peace of mind
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: “Another common scenario is when they cause emotional distress.”
reluctant (miễn cưỡng)
Synonyms: unwilling, hesitant, disinclined
Antonyms: eager, willing, enthusiastic
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: “People are somewhat reluctant to say sorry in everyday interactions.”
moral obligation (nghĩa vụ đạo đức)
Synonyms: ethical duty, responsibility, commitment
Antonyms: immorality, irresponsibility, unethical behavior
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: “Apologizing reflects a sense of moral obligation.”
remorse (sự ăn năn)
Synonyms: regret, repentance, contrition
Antonyms: indifference, remorselessness, defiance
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: “Apologizing shows genuine remorse.”
defense mechanism (cơ chế phòng vệ)
Synonyms: coping strategy, psychological shield, protective tactic
Antonyms: acceptance, openness, confrontation
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: “People sometimes choose denial as a defense mechanism.”
⚙️ Difficult Grammar Structures
Without such gestures, even trivial situations might escalate into arguments.
→ Structure: Without + noun/gerund, clause (diễn tả hệ quả nếu không có điều kiện đó).
→ Vietnamese: “Nếu không có những cử chỉ như vậy, ngay cả tình huống nhỏ nhặt cũng có thể leo thang thành tranh cãi.”Failing to apologize leaves the victim deeply hurt and disrespected.
→ Structure: V-ing as subject (dùng động từ ở dạng V-ing làm chủ ngữ).
→ Vietnamese: “Việc không xin lỗi khiến nạn nhân bị tổn thương và thiếu tôn trọng.”Instead of facing their actions, people sometimes choose denial as a defense mechanism.
→ Structure: Instead of + V-ing/N, clause (so sánh lựa chọn).
→ Vietnamese: “Thay vì đối diện với hành động của mình, con người đôi khi chọn sự phủ nhận như một cơ chế phòng vệ.”
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